BBA Mantra 2: Bad Bitches have goals.
How to be a True Goal-Digger and reach your goals.
What do you want in life. Have you written it down? Do you have vision boards, a calendar, a schedule? Do you have something to keep your goals in the forefront of your mind?
If you have a dream it will always stay a dream, never becoming more, unless you put the work in to make it become reality.
“Everybody wants to be famous, but nobody wants to do the work. I live by that. You grind hard so you can play hard. At the end of the day, you put all the work in, and eventually it’ll pay off. It could be in a year, it could be in 30 years. Eventually, your hard work will pay off.” – Kevin Hart
This is so true. If you work hard towards whatever it is that you want in life, eventually the work will absolutely pay off. You may be saying – well my life is too complicated, or I have zero money, or those people were born privileged, or you don’t know the hurdles I would have to jump to get to my dream. To all of those excuses I say – everybody has shit to deal with. No excuses, work toward your goal. Do what you have to do to overcome your particular adversity. Go out and do it.
“Don’t wish it were easier. Wish you were better.”
― Jim Rohn
You have to decide what you want. If you want to see your dream become reality then decide that you want it and do what you have to do to make it happen. The next step is to plan backwards. Think of the big picture, or your end results, then break it down to little steps and tasks. The more details you have in your steps, the more you can rely on your plan, and the less room you give yourself to decide to give up. Its planned out for you, stick to it.
What if you know what you want but don’t know what the breakdown is or what little steps are needed to reach your goal. The answers are out there. Talk to people, Listen to their their story and what they did to get what they want. We also have to remember – if others are doing it, then why the hell cant you. No one will give you a hand out. It wont drop onto your lap. Go out and do your shit.
As a bad bitch you cant be afraid to be bold about what you want. You cant be afraid to ask for what you want. You cant be afraid to work hard. Ultimately we only have this one life and we need to make it our best life. We don’t want to look around 1, 3, or 5 years later and think where did the time go. You’ll be kicking yourself in the ass for not starting earlier.
“The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.”
― Jimmy Johnson
Bad bitches aren’t ordinary. Go out and grab your shit. Get your life.